Will you still be friend with your ex?
I wonder why one of my friend can still stay contact with her ex while they have actually seperated for about a year ago. They can still have breakfast almost every Saturday like usual, phone each other asking what are u doing, where are u...God! Wat kind of relationship is this?? I doubt..
" I remind you again, you better stay away with you bf since ppl already dump you and he already had his new gf!!!!How many times I need to remind you huh???" This is what I'm gonna say whenever I go out shopping with her...cause I just can't stand her ex always call her wherever she goes..talk for few second also song!
What she will always say to me is "I know, I know, but he tells me he enjoy being with me then his recent gf, as long as I still like him and want to take care of him, I will....till one day whereby I have no energy to take care of him anymore" I just can't understand what she is talking about. Maybe she is still drunk... from the day her ex dump her till now, and yet working part time as a bar tender, has a lot of free beers to poison her own poor mind...."R u going to be like this for the rest of your life??? Wake up my friend!!! Wake up!!!" I will always talk to myself when I meet up with her. Cause she will never listen to my advise..
1. Will you still contact your ex when you both had break up and have your own new partner? Strange relationship..
Are you goin to comment about this?
" I remind you again, you better stay away with you bf since ppl already dump you and he already had his new gf!!!!How many times I need to remind you huh???" This is what I'm gonna say whenever I go out shopping with her...cause I just can't stand her ex always call her wherever she goes..talk for few second also song!
What she will always say to me is "I know, I know, but he tells me he enjoy being with me then his recent gf, as long as I still like him and want to take care of him, I will....till one day whereby I have no energy to take care of him anymore" I just can't understand what she is talking about. Maybe she is still drunk... from the day her ex dump her till now, and yet working part time as a bar tender, has a lot of free beers to poison her own poor mind...."R u going to be like this for the rest of your life??? Wake up my friend!!! Wake up!!!" I will always talk to myself when I meet up with her. Cause she will never listen to my advise..
1. Will you still contact your ex when you both had break up and have your own new partner? Strange relationship..
Are you goin to comment about this?
posted by anne @ 1:45 PM
6 Comments:
At November 29, 2004 10:40 PM,
-KCB- said…
Some couples can remains friend after break-up. Some just can't. This depends on the situation. If the breakup was mutual consent then being a friend was normal as both knows that they are not meant for each other.
I will concentrate on x-couple being friend.
I think it is normal. But if the other 1/2 (in this case ur fren) in my opinion still have some hope to recover their relationship then I think will become a problem sooner or later.
Being a friend after breakup is normal and not as unusual as u think. But are they really friends? Are they treating each other as individual and not their other half? Hey this guy saying he enjoy her companion instead of his recent gf! can this be consider 'one leg take 2ship?'.
Maybe u should ask you friend if she is going to still like him and take care of him "as long as she have energy" (does [no energy] means after she die?), she will not consider any guy who come for her? Then good luck being ol', lonely and living with ol' people! [see breakup babe].
How long does she breakup already? A year? How ol is she? 27? How long they had been together b4 breakup? 4yrs? Ask her how much longer she is going to wait for him? Was she willing to go back to him? Ask this question by sequence and if she said yes to the last answer... I think she need professional help! [see breakup babe also].
hahahaha... but then, that's my opinion...
At November 30, 2004 6:44 AM,
The Red Dragon said…
I suggest that you should give your friend a big bitch slap to wake her up.... muahhhahahaha
No other comments.... ;)
At November 30, 2004 12:20 PM,
agnesatria said…
Er. i think this one depend lor... but i do agree that she should pay more attention to her current bf rather than her ex.. However..relationship thing is hard to explain till when you are in the situation...
At November 30, 2004 12:33 PM,
wellsim said…
I am totally agree with "Kit and Steve". Your friend need professional help and may be ah kit way will work also.
At November 30, 2004 1:18 PM,
-KCB- said…
Introduce your friend to mr kwong chiew kit! he can definitely help your friend forget her xxx! hahahahaha...
In 'Kidd' we belief! May Kit bless you...
At November 30, 2004 1:20 PM,
anne said…
It's useless to give her a big bitch slap..she will still sing the same song that she is singing everyday.."That's the way ah huh ah huh, I like it ah huh ah huh...."
She is 31 years old..has been seperated wif her ex for about 1 year. She likes Indian, and her ex was an Indian.(What is so good about Indian...Sxx good I think, haha). There is no more medicine to cure her as my sliver have gone dry talking, and talking to her.
She likes to pampered her ex a lot. Dun know why..I really dun know wat kind of relationship held between them now..and I dun want to bother either(can't help). Maybe as you said she is waiting for the relationship to recover...I shall write to Thelma to announce her story to the whole world...this will be a good slap to wake her up...
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